When you have children, you say goodbye to an ordered and well managed existence. A good night’s sleep, personal privacy, solvency, freedom of choice and speech are all consigned to history as we open the door to a new chapter in our lives.
Parenthood. As a parent, things you once owned and treasured suddenly become endangered. A cherished record collection stamped upon, a pure cashmere sweater puked over – with kids, the collateral damage is far reaching.
And one of the places children can really mess up your cosy, pre-parenthood world order, is out in the garden. If you are a keen gardener who tends your beds, borders and lawns with great care, you are probably quite proprietorial over your special plot. A tranquil garden oasis, a space to escape to after a long day at work, is something most people can appreciate.